Master of Ceremonies - Experience Sharing

Salam sejahtera...cewah tetiba begitu skema, bukan apa nak inline with the topic je.

Erm segan sebenarnya nak buat entry ni but since ramai yg bertanya and tak kurang juga ada yg pernah minta saya buat training bagi tips and kongsi pengalaman saya sebagai MC, maka saya share la skek2 apa yg sy tau, kalau ada yg berguna harap boleh jadi panduan...mana yg x praktikal tu harap boleh betulkan.

Honestly, i am not a trained MC..semua bermula masa darjah 4 dalam satu pertandingan Pidato antara kelas, masatu without knowing wht is Pidato all about, sy dgn slumber volunteered myself to represent my class, because no other taker maka cikgu bagi jela sy masuk....thx to my auntie who helped me to compose the text "masa itu emas" my 1st ever public speaking debut..

Though sy cuma jadi 1st runner up je tapi pengalaman tu cukup berguna, it tells myself and the rest that this boy can speak and he does it well. Ever since sy dpt byk ruang utk tampil di atas pentas bagi pelbagai acara...sy suka!

Alhamdulillah as of tonite saya dah hosting almost all types of function...ranging from formal to casual occasion, to name a few; corporate dinner, luncheon, wedding, talent show, party and even religious program heeee....my audiences vary from hi rank Gov officers such as cabinet minister, top management of companies such as President and CEOs down to the mass.

So many asked what are my secrets to be quite a good emcee considering my armature status, perasan skek la kan..tp it is common when people associating me with Pak Nil (i am honoured), my friend in Bandung call me Najib Ali (mujur bukan Azwan Ali) Okla tonite i admit that these two host have influenced me the most, i grew up by watching Asia Bagus and Pop Kuiz so what to do??

eh eh melalut plak, mana tips nye kan? sorry...

Basically to me, emcee is just not about stand in front and read the script. You are master of ceremonies and thus you should know the event flow and have control over it. Hence, most of the time, i prepared the script on my own based on agenda given by the organizer. That way, i can really control the program flow.

Say that u have no expertise to write the script, its ok...but pls to ensure that the floor manager is a fren of yours :)

Next, pls to rehearse...no matter how expert or how experience we are. People may think that i casually walk into the hall, grab the mic and start talking...because in many occasion, i dun even bring my script. Hell no! i did rehearsing my line dayssss before the program, i do it by talking in front mirror...

Generally, everybody will get butterfly struck...no doubt. Me myself will for sure shaking in the 1st 3 seconds....so saya amal doa yg semua org tahu...doa Nabi Musa. So far it works, alhamdulillah.

Masa in action tu, pls be flexible... i mean play be ears la, biggest mistake is emcee selalu bermonologue. Yes u have the script but you are talking to people so eye contact kena jaga, body language, gesture, ur voice tone, pitch and diction...in short, jgn syok sendiri :)

Act appropriately to the response of your audience...faham kadang2 acara formal memang a bit dry, tapi jangan make it worst by reading the script trough out the program...how? thts where knowledge plays a role. We must know the subject matters, enrich self with current info/news/fact etc so we can simply ad lib with eye wakening trivia depending on the mood...

ok, a bit when u have a partner (co host)...pls ensure you and your partner supporting each other. Jgn dua2 nak menonjol diri, sorang feeder sorang libas...gilir2 la. A good emcee will always makes his/her partner seems and sounds great.

Lastly, how we present ourselves lah, true kadang2 program kecik je, tp igt people are still looking and creating an image in their black box (marketing term), and normally it will lasting almost forever. So my advise, pakai la kemas2 and molek2...ada masa perlu tonjolkan karisma sebab kdg2 program tu 2 jam, sakit mata org tgk emcee ghupa macam x siap je. Cantik, kacak semua tu bonus and x penting...i mean presentable...sebab tu sy x setuju people call me metroseksual, i am not, in normal life sy pakai shirt, track bottom n sandal je...no metroseksual guy would wear that. I just dress accordingly to the occasion because i respect the organizer and the program regardless of it capacity.

sini dulu, utk general tips on MC...ada masa and jika ada keperluan saya share lebih specifik ikut jenis acara...maybe some sample of the script might helps too.

Maaf kalo ada yg rasa sy perasan ke apa...n these tips maybe only practical to me so pls take your risk hehe...

Ziana Zain in me

salamZZ all...

Disclaimer: all are welcome to call me POYOs for this entry as i will become poyo sepoyo poyo nye..

i genuinely thought tht i can pretend cool n behave like i am not affected at all, but seriously i just can't get it out of my head! i keep thinking what am i doing here at home in Kerteh?? shouldn't i suppose to be in Esplanade tonite?? witnessing the greatest vocal performance of the nite by my lovely sister...Ziana Zain (the one and only)

since the last 15 years, i have no other favorite female local singer but her. It was all started during Juara Lagu 1996 where she eventually lost to the star in the making on tht time...Dato' Siti Nurhaliza. With due respect to Dato', i just feel that, Kak Ziana deserved to win the title. However, old story, case closed.

then i began collecting all of her albums...(pirate) because as a student with minor scholarship from JPA, certainly i can't afford to buy original version hehe...not to mention all magazines that featured her as cover story or pin up...proud enuf, i still have it in my collection until now....hundreds of them ! lucky me, my mom never object bcoz i had never ask her money :)

later in campus, the scholarship amount is "bigger"....so i bought all of her albums from Madah Berhelah to Aku Cintakanmu...no regret. Again, not to count her compilation album, concert album and other special project of her. that time also, i started knowing Zianafolks tru online forum, hmm i can spend hours in computer lab, online...debating and protecting her in online forum. Obviously i was so immature that time, gaduh just bcoz of her heeeee

one crazy little thing i did tht time, i took train from JB to KL sentral at night and arrived at KL in the morning, i stayed/hang out at KL sentral waiting for her showcase at the afternoon...after the showcase, i took my train went back to JB and i safely arrived JB next morning, went straight to campus for my exam...cool :) after all, i can't focus on my study should i chose not to go...for sure i can't perform in my exam when i cannot study. Note tht, i scored A still...study in train la.

back to the showcase, wow unforgettable moment of my life. After more than a decade admiring her from far, finally i had a chance to see her before my eyes...in blue dress, she looked gorgeous beyond word...unfortunately, we have no facebook that time, let alone camera phone...in fact i don't even have hand phone hahaha...still the memory glued strongly in my mind...

6 years later in 2008, i experienced second encounter with her. It was during AJL 23 semi final in which she contending her single entitle Dingin. She lost that nite but i don't care...zianafolks love her regardless of wht ever result, we so proud of her superb performance and to us, she is the ultimate winner. Miracle does happen, especially when it involves super diva like her...she went to final despite her lost.

I cried in the middle of Jakarta Metropolice during the nite of AJL 23...not bcoz she didn't win but bcoz i am not in stadium watching her perform live...

and tonite, instead of writing this piece of frustration...i should sing along in esplanade or just simply listening to her powerful voice....

Syawal Diary

Happy Malaysia Day & Merdeka!

hmm back in office, i wrote Ramadan Diary for company web news. Here i extend the title in my personal blog to share my experience during this year Syawal. I choose to write in english language because it may avoiding me from being too melancholic as this Syawal was the most special Syawal in my life thus far.

This year raya theme for my family was purple! lucky for me bcoz i've baju melayu in so many colors in my closet, so i didn't have to buy a new one. Nevertheless, hehe i was still sourcing for it at Jalan Masjid India, Sogo, Jalan TAR up to Pasar Seni...but i found nothing that fit my tiny body or either my hugeeee taste :)

cookies...as usual, i ordered the same cookies from the same bakery since the last 5 years..n thiz yr i end up once again as the biggest spender without knowing. I bought almost every type of cookies offered on my table, not counting cakes, kerepek n other so called side dish eeee....

main menu on our table thiz yr....turkey! seriously Turkey...rendang to' turkey which was delicately prepared by my auntie. My mom cooked sambal kacang, daging masak merah and ofcoz ketupat. Me and nenek, jointly crafting ketupat daun kelapa for ourselves satisfaction (bcoz no one cares) xpela nek...

second day, i sicked of ketupat already so my mom cooked asam laksa and fried beehon..3rd day, i craving for nasi! nasi nasi nasi....with sardine je sob3 poor me.

Alhamdulillah, many came visiting our home thiz yr...relatives and friends, neighbor not really bcoz they too went back to their Kg rite?? i certain tht thiz yr was many than previous yr bcoz i ran out of my angpau allocation unlike before.

Due to that, i only have limited time to go out, only at night after isya'...where no more people come to our house...yet it was wonderful! i never thought tht i would had a chance to meet my old play mate from primary school..really enjoyed tht night where we gathered like those days under the surau at sek agama haha...i am grateful seeing that all of us have grown up and on our own way to be somebody insha allah...

Okay, i mentioned earlier tht thiz is the most special Syawal in my life thus far. Reason being, i got engage!! yes i am excited...thrilled perhaps! beyond words, i m on the moon till now heeee....i've "the ring" and she has it too. Nothing much to story about the ceremony, alhamdulillah it went well and smooth...minus some tiredness, tension etc...in total i am blessed!

Thus thanks a lot to my mom and the rest of my family members for being there for me and more. Countless thx to my twin friend, u know who u are...i think he was nervous more than me, he called me almost every single day prior to the ceremony just to ensure i've prepare everything properly. To Che Nor, hope you are reading this hehe...thx for the lovely deco and chocolate, i dunno how can i pay you back but certainly my pray is for you and your family. Dun forget ek, more deco deco deco...

To my in laws, thanks too for hosting such a meaningful ceremony, i appreciate every single tiny things u had done for our ceremony, especially after i'd watched "Father of the bride"

To my fiancee, enough talking la...i dun have to thx u here (malu) heeeee

now, more works need to be done for the day...i think 80% completed...i think :)

Begging for everyone to wish us the best and may our happiness last longer than our life...ameen

Gurindam Lebaran

Nukilan ini bukan madah karyawan
sekadar merenung hilangnya Ramadan
jauh nan sayup, malam seribu bulan
malam - malam yang menjanjikan sejuta kerahmatan
bagi insan-insan yang mengaku beriman
kini hanya tinggal dalam bayangan...

air mata ini, air mata kecelaruan
antara pilu ditinggal Ramadan
disulami sendu merai kemenangan
kalbu ku ini ditebak kegusaran
mungkinkah akan kutemui lagi wahai Tuhan?
Ramadan....penghulu segala bulan

Namun Syawal wajib kusyukuri
dengan takbir kebesaran Mu Ya Rabbi
aku sujud insafi diri
kembali kepada fitrah azali

Buat saudara, handai dan taulan
ku pohon rimbunan ampun dan kemaafan
khilafku cerminan lemahnya iman
tertunduk dek nafsu tertawan dek syaitan

Selamat Hari Raya Aidilfitri
Minnal Aidil Wal Faizil....

Khilaf

Assalamualaikum...

erm sejak dua menjak layan IKIM FM ni, saya selalu terdengar sebuah lagu yg pada telinga saya, amat sedap. Walau tak tahu judul dan pelantun nya tp saya layan aje.

semalam gigih pulak mencari lagu tersebut, jumpa di google baru tahu siapa punya lagu. cari di Youtube ada skek je video nye, xde full song. Mujur ada di laman share, boleh la donlod mp3 nye tp x dpt nak share di FB sebab format x supported.

So arini, merajinkan diri maen movie maker utk promote lagu ni kepada semua kawan2. Jgn nilai video yg sy buat sebab sy memang x mahir (ini cuma percubaan ke 2)...nilai bait2 lagu yg ingin sy kongsikan sahaja ye..

wassalam dan Salam Aidilfitri

Ramadhan - Hebahan Aktiviti di EPEMSB

Wahai orang-orang beriman, telah ditentukan (diwajibkan) ke atas kamu berpuasa sepertimana telah ditentukan ke atas umat sebelum kamu, mudah-mudahan kamu mencapai (nilai) taqwa,(ayat 183 surah al-Baqarrah.

Alhamdulillah kita dipanjangkan umur dan dapat bertemu sekali lagi dgn Ramadhan tahun ini, erk rasa mcm ustaz plak...

so dikesempatan ini sy mendoakan diri saya sendiri dan anda semua agar terpilih menjadi insan2 bertuah merebut segala kerahmatan yang Allah janjikan...amin.

Ramadhan thn ini bermula seperti biasa, dgn sambutan Ihya Ramadhan di syarikat. Sayangnya thn ini tak berpeluang ikuti program tersebut kerana ada meeting bulanan dgn para kontraktor, meskipun begitu sy masih menimbulkan kekalutan bilamana Ustad tlh memanggil nama sy utk mengiringi En Wan ke pentas..hihi, maaf ustad lupa bgtau sy ada meeting.

Lepastu, kalut dgn kurma pula...sehingga hari ini, kurma utk semua kakitangan maseh blom dpt diedarkan. Maaflah semua, puncanya sy sendiri yg lemah dlm perancangan, tiada sebarang alasan. Insha allah jika dizini Tuhan, esok kurma bakal menjengah meja2 kalian...harap bersabar ek.



Selepas ini, surau Al Hidayah bakal diimarahkan pula dgn aktiviti tadarus, kumpulan telahpun ditampal kat Surau tadi, mulai esok sesiapa yg berkelapangan jemputla bertadarus...cuma tahun ini mungkin tak buat aktiviti khatam beramai-ramai kerana kesuntukan masa...

Suntuk sebab majlis Iftar dijadual pada 14hb August, kalo sempat habis 30 juzuk by then so boleh la buat...tp x sempat rasanya hehe. Jangan lupa dtg bersama keluarga ke Rumbia Resort, pasti semua dah dpt emel jemputan hok...harap dpt meriahkan majlis tersebut dan maaf awal2 atas segala kekurangan.

Wow padat nye xtvt Ramadhan, esok juga saya akan start advertise nama dan gambar anak2 yatim serta miskin yg perlukan sumbangan anda untuk shopping persiapan raya!! aktiviti yg paling sy gemar saban tahun...cuma thn ini pun lewat skek atas kepincangan sy sendiri :( Apepun harap anda semua sudi menaja adik2 ini seperti thn2 sebelumnya. Hanya Allah sajela yg mampu membalas jasa baik kalian.....

Cakap pasal derma, jgn lupa juga untuk mengisi tabung BAKIP Bersamamu ye, target tahun ini RM 20 K je...ala bonus lebat eeee. Insha allah majlis penyerahan sumbangan Bersamamu akan berlangsung pada 25 August...jadi pd anda yg ingin mencalonkan mana2 penerima, silala emel saya atau Ustad ek...kita memerlukan ramai penerima yg layak.

Tahun ini juga, kita akan edar Kurma ke Madrasah dan Masjid berhampiran, jadi jika anda ada mana2 cadangan, silal kemukakn kepada saya ye....kita ada cukup kurma utk diedarkan insha allah....

Okay, rasanya cukup sini hebahan Ramadhan kali ni, nak tidor awal sebab takut terlajak sahur...meskipun syaitan is leaving us tp iman sy ni blom cukup ampuh utk beramal tanpa lelah...niscaya baikla sy mengurangkan aktiviti berbloging ini tanpa tujuan yg jelas...



akhir kalam, sekali lagi...Ramadhan Kareem buat semua!

jangan lupa Niat puasa ek....kalau lupa saya ingatkan hehe

wassalam

Protokol Majlis - Susunan Keutamaan

Malam ni rasa rajin pula nak membaca, selama ni memang banyak handle majlis rasmi mahupun tidak rasmi, tapi agak kurang mahir hal ehwal susunan keutamaan. Meski ramai yang bertanya dan merujuk pada saya. Maka malam ni saya kongsi sedikit hasil pembacaan saya untuk maklumat semua.

Susunan Keutamaan

- Senarai yang disusun mengikut kedudukan kekananan antara pelbagai golongan masyarakat termasuk pegawai kerajaan, bukan pegawai kerajaan dan orang awam
- Susunan Keutamaan Persekutuan masa kini ~ Warta Kerajaan P.U. (B) –22 Januari 1998
 Menyusun tempat duduk
 Menyusun atur cara majlis
 Tertib ketibaan tetamu kenamaan
 Tertib kepulangan tetamu
 Penyampaian ucapan
 Pengacaraan majlis
 Susunan bendera

- Asas Menentukan Susunan Keutamaan
 Pegawai Kerajaan
 Jenis jawatan yang disandang
 Gred jawatan
 Anugerah kebesaran
 Bukan Pegawai Kerajaan
 Anugerah kebesaran
 Kedudukan dalam masyarakat

-Panggilan sewajarnya terhadap tetamu kehormat dan dif
 Perdana Menteri
 Timbalan Perdana Menteri
 Ketua Menteri
 Menteri Besar
Yang Amat Berhormat

 Menteri
 Timbalan Menteri
 Ahli Dewan Rakyat
 Ahli Dewan Negara
 Ahli Dewan Undangan Negeri
Yang Berhormat

 Pengerusi Majlis
 Ketua Jabatan
 Ketua Bahagian
Yang Berusaha
Yang Berbahagia
Yang Mulia

- Susunan Tempat Duduk Bilangan Ganjil
 Bilangan terhad kepada bilangan yang kecil ~ 3, 5, 7 dan 9
 Susunan tempat duduk atas pentas mengikut susunan keutamaan atau kekananan
 Pengukuran kekananan dikira dari tengah-tengah

- Susunan Tempat Duduk Bilangan Genap
 Bilangan yang ideal ~ 6, 10, 14, 16
 Susunan tempat duduk atas pentas mengikut susunan keutamaan atau kekanan
 Pengukuran kekananan di kira secara dibahagi dua

selamat beprotokol !

When a man loves a woman

When a man loves a woman
Can't keep his mind on nothin' else
He'd trade the world
For the good thing he's found

If she is bad, he can't see it
She can do no wrong
And turn his back on his best friend
If he puts her down

When a man loves a woman
Spend his very last dime
And trying to hold on to what he needs

He'd give up all his comforts
And sleep out in the rain
If she said that's the way, it ought to be

When a man loves a woman
I give you everything I've got
Trying to hold on to your precious love
And baby baby please don't treat me bad

Ramadhan Kareem

Salam Ramadhan & Selamat menjalani ibadah puasa buat semua rakan2, kawan2, teman2 & sahabat andai...uuuu ramainya

Alhamdulillah, kalau korang baca tulisan aku kalini maknanya korang semua termasuk aku maseh berpeluang bertemu dengan Ramadhan tahun ini (barakallah)Moga2 kita semua mendapat kerahmatan,keampunan dan bebas dari api Insha Allah...

Harini sudah 5 hari kita di dalam bulan Ramadhan. Petang tadi alhamdulillah berbuka kat Rumbia, beberapa petang sebelum ni meriah berbuka di Surau Rantau...baru sekali buka kat kedai sama geng2 kat sini.

Tadi buka kat Rumbia sebab esok syarikat akan adakan jamuan buka puasa kat situ. as usual s well aku kena jadi emcee so mesti esok tak dapat makan dgn tenang, maka bos kasi p makan dulu awal2 heeeee

oklah nak layan Dragon Ball Evolution jap....before masuk tido

Selamat berpuasa utk semua!

My brother wed...

Confuse?? terkejut? hoho. 

kata anak tunggal kan, tetiba ada brother plak. Brother yg aku maksudkan ni adalah kawan baik (arif aka kiut) since zaman2 kampus dulu. Kitorang dah ngaku adik beradik pun, sebab aku 7 bulan lebih tua so aku la abang huhu, tapi ramai yg cakap aku ni adik eeee. 

ok this time nak cerita pasal his wedding skek, hari Jumaat 12hb Feb aku klua rumah (kerteh) seawal jam 7 pg menuju ke Bandar Masai, Jb.  Tak banyak bende menarik terjadi kecuali incident aku tersesat ketika d Pekan Pahang dan Mersing Johor. Apapun sebab sesat dapatla aku makan nasi lemak yg boleh tahan sedapnya d terminal Taxi Pekan cuma gerai dia agak berabuk...

oh lupa...sampai Kota Tinggi pun aku sesat gak actuali. Tak pasal2 p masuk dalam bandar Kota Tinggi tp best jugak sebab dpt tgk tempat orang...disebabkan aku asyik sesat je so kiut suruh aku tunggu je kat Jusco Tebrau City, itupun kebetulan je aku lalu situ without knowing.

hehe blom masuk lagi cerita wedding ek....kejap la. later sampai2 je rumah kiut, duk kalut tengok barang2 hantaran dia (9 dulang semuanya). Kagum giler bila tahu semua tu dia buat sendiri, cantique! Tapi knowing him memang wajar pun dia buat sendri, dia jenis yg payah nak percaya pd hasil kerja org laen, drpd dgr dia komplen better bg dia buat sendri. Malam tu plak kitorang round2 bandar p cari CD lagu2 pengantin, memula p Jusco Permas Jaya then Giant Plentong then Jusco Tebrau City, sib baek kat JTC ada jual CD tu....penat pusing. Pas makan2...our last bachelor dinner together, balek rumah rebus telur untuk bunga telur la pulak....tap tup ta[ tup jam 1 baru setel merebus...

then pagi sabtu tu lepas2 subuh kitorang start sarung telur kat bunganya....final packing....sarap n chalow to Kluang. 2 jam perjalanan checked in at Hotel Kluang Baru @ bandar Kluang. Menjelang petang p cuci kereta (mine) because nak guna esok p bawak pengantin. sebagai pengapit aku jd driver tp sebab x pandai pandu kereta manual maka kenala guna kereta aku...petang tu gak was CNY eve, so bandar Kluang bagaikan bandar tinggal dlm cerita The Wax Museum tu.....lengang! nak cari tempat cuci kereta pun sakit, then jumpa 1 tapi x moh amik dah. Jumpa 1 lagi tapi nak caj RM 20! mak oi giler mahal....pusing lagi jumpa yg RM 18, stil mahal but had no choice....boleh la. cuma bengang la gak sebab d way dia cuci tu lebih kurang je, x de snow wash pun....sib baek tempat org.

later kitorang p plak Plaza Tol Ayer Hitam, p tunggu famili Kiut yg dtg dari KB....2 buah van. duduk tepi hiway tgk kereta bumper ke bumper d Plaza tol...ramai org balek kg nampaknya. Dekat jam 8 malam baru famili dia sampai, terus g dinner n balek hotel...rehat2. Tapi kami be2 masih ada misi, iaitu menginai jari pengantin...tugas aku le tu. Sian pengantin x boleh tido lena lepas inai, CNY kan, org Kluang bakar mercun n bunga api...wht to do. Tapi meriahla, cantik bandar kluang mlm tu...colorful.

Masa kat hotel mlm tu, tho dah biasa org tegur muka kitorang iras tp stil mcm heran la gak. 1 org mamat tiong hua ni, naik lift skali ngn kitorang, x semena-mena tanya "lu olang adik abang?" (adik jari dia tuju kat aku) cam biasa kami mengangguk dan senyum...then dia ckp lagi "patut muka selupa" 

Hakikatnya kitorang x pernah rasa muka kitorang iras....tgk gamba byk kali dah x pernahnampak pun keirasannya....maybe white man say true (gaya Salleh Yaacob) "best fren looks alike"

Pagi ahad...lepas sarap, bapak Kiut siap2kan dia utk upacara akad nikah...segak berbaju melayu putih, dia nampak nervous as he shud be. x kasi aku p mana2...so aku stood stil by his side je la. Nikah d Masjid Felda Ulu Belitong, kebetulan pagi tu ada 1 lagi pasangan yg ingin nikah maka to' kadi buat dalam 1 majlis sahaja. Kami sampai dulu so Kiut dinikahkan dulu...cakapla aku emo ke apa, tapi seyes menitik air mata aku time duduk sebelah dia bila 4 saksi melafazkan ucapan sah! terharu sungguh bila sahabat yg kita anggap saudara akhirnya selamat (skali lafaz) memasuki fasa baru dalam kehidupan. Nangis sebab sedey aku x kawen2 lagi pun ada jugak huhuhu

Lepastu lepak kat rumah singgah (rumah to' imam) dalam kawasan felda tu la. Cantik sungguh felda Ulu Belitong, no wonder menang RM 1 juta utk pertandingan felda tercantik. Rumah diorang colorful, tersusun kemas di kwsn berbukit mcm kat Beverlly Hills gitu loh..paling utama, penduduk dia ramah tamah belaka, layan org luar mcm keluarga sendiri. aku bukan setakat tumpang rumah malahan tumpang mandi hoho...(jenis x malu), n bende yg paling aku suka biasala....ramainye yg tanya "adik pengantin ke?" period. Bende yg aku x suke pun biasala, kawan dah selamat, pengapitnya bila lagi?? pertanyaan yg x putus2 sambil diiringi lagu latar blakang dr kumpulan waliband "x laku2" hampeh punya DJ, majlis kawen pun nak putar lagu tu...x sesuai langsung!

sepasang kuning (raja) kiut melangkah segak tepat jam 2 menuju rumah pengantin perempuan (Maria)...adat org sini ada tol, bende baru utk aku. meriah dgn paluan kompang, pertunjukkan silat pulut...mempelai kemudian disandingkan di atas pelamin sambil ditepung tawar oleh keluarga terdekat masing2....senyum melebar je dia, siapa kenal dia taula. Muka merah2...         xcited la tu...seronok...good 4 him, dah macam2 dia lalui for the last few months, very thankful la yg majlis aritu jalan lancar. Lepas makan adap2...tugas aku pun selesai, pengantin sibuk potong kek n begambar ngn tetamu yg hadir.

Aku pun tanpa diminta p layan2 kawan2 kampus (Kukin, Wani, Sham n Bayah) yg dtg membawa suami serta anak2 masing2 bg yg telah bekawen la hehe. Borak2 panjang sambil layan anak2 member memang moment yg sweet...asik tersasul membahasakan diri s abg instead of uncle..comel2 anak diorang, wani bw bayi kembar umur 5/6 bulan, semangat...montel...n x banyak ragam, biasala baby nangis kan (aku lupa nama) sebab nampak dia susah nk sebut.

Manakala bayah plak bw 2 hero...Aiman umo 2 tahun ++ tapi tubuh dia tinggi so nampak mcm 3-4 tahun and Amir umo 5 bulan. Rasa mcm baru je semalam aku dpt sms Bayah lahirkan Aiman...jumpa2 dah 2 tahun umo budak tu... Amir punya serasi ngn aku sampai dia muntah kat baju aku (bj pinjam)...pandai dia, dlm senyap2 je muntah...x berbunyi lansung! x nangis apapun. Si Aiman memula jual mahal n malu...last2 boleh geng gak la (auntie Kukin makan hati).

Sham mcm tu la...cuma maken kurus n rambut dah skema...nex trip to Jb will be on his wedding...look forward!

petang tu lepas majlis selesai, bw mempelai p begamba kat studio...wah2 cantik Maria ngn evening dress warna hitam, Kiut pun s usual segak dlm jaket nehru color sedondon. Byk2 baju, Kiut pilih utk pakai baju yg aku belikan setahun lalu sebagai baju yg d pakai kat belah dlm jaket, dia kata appreciate kerjasama aku...huhuhu thx bro!

lepas gambar, sampai je rumah....11 biji periuk besa menanti Kiut utk dicuci, adat kononya. Maka nak x nak terpaksala dia cuci...aku memang x tolong hehe, khas utk pengantin je. aku bagaimanapun tunggu kat situ sampai dekat jam 11 malam...x dinner pun (lapa)...sian kiut lepas tu mengadu penat n marah2....sabar, adat tu. Bila dia marah....no dinner la jawapnya, aku gak yg terus lapa...sib baek later time gosip2 ngn kakak Maria, dia bw klua mcm2 makanan ringan, dia tgk aku suka makan maken byk plak jenis makanan yg dia hidangkan....

pagi senin....lepas sarap akupun beransur pulang ke Kertih. Ambik kereta kat rumah to'imam...baiknya wife dia, siap tadah tangan bedoa agar aku selamat sampai lg, dia x putus2 pesan pandu elok2 etc....maybe sebab anak dia meninggal kemalangan jalan raya 6 bulan lepas kut, dia now bela cucu yatim tu yg baru masuk 1 tahun 5 bulan...sian adik tu, kecik2 dah tiada ibu. 

dengan 1 pelukan....aku tinggalkan Kiut dlm kehidupan barunya, Kiut n Maria...selamat pengantin baru, doa aku utk korang berdua!

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Salam buat semua...

Agak lama tak update apa-apa dlm blog ni, btw sapa yg kisah pun sebab bukan ada orang baca hahaha...maklumla aku punya blog ni bosan semacam je, tak IT savvy enough nk upload fancy material n might not.

cuma malam ni rasa nak kembali menulis la sempena tahun baru 2010 ni...harap tak terlewat nak ucap Happy New Yr to all!

Tahun baru bermula ceria. Seisi rumah (bujang) celebrate new yr 4 d 1st time ever since duk umah ni from yr 2006. Kitorang buat simple bbq party on the new yr eve tu sama2 ngn few member office dr EPE & PPT.

Since that, Januari pun bermula, and it was hectic beyond expectation. Keje kat opis tu biasala, siapa yg tak banyak keje rite? tapi program utama Januari adlh company Safety Drive. Aku offer diri nak buat soalan treasure hunt tu, tak sangka ianya bukan sesimple yg difikirkan. It tooks me 1 week tak cukup tido, stay up until 4 am in d morning (mcm zaman student) just nak pecah kepala fikirkan ayat2 mudah yet tricky. Itu blom kira ulang alik Gambang utk survey the route wht so ever....Alhamdulillah, semuanya berjalan lancar tho ada hickup here n there (adat).

January jugak adlh bulan sukan, ada 2 tournaments aku join. Woodball inter HRM section. Hoho section PR Admin emerged as d champion meskipun aku punya stroke plg teruk skali. Then ada bowling inter department gak, just involved HRM, HSE & OPI je la....tho tak menang apa2 tp overall rasa hepi sebab dpt kumpul ramai2 camtu and do some activity together.

last week Jan, kembali menggegar sekolah angkat untuk program Bakti. Puas hati sungguh coz thiz time aku lebih tersusun n tahu wht i am doing. Terharu ngn komitmen tinggi para Fasi, adik2 n pihak sekolah....harap ianya berterusan. 

Now dah masuk February, another busy month tapi dah expect sebab semuanya ada dlm calendar. Ofcoz 3rd Feb is my 27th besday! Alhamdulillah....masih bernyawa dgn sihat n bahagia sampai saat ini. Maybe (kalo ada yg baca) x percaya ngn deklarasi aku ni, tp hakikatnya ialah aku x pernah pun sambut my own besday. Just bukan kebiasaan dlm famili, time tu mak lebih sibuk bekeje n tiap2 kali besday akupun mak xde kat rumah....dia igt tapi wht to do kan. So bila dah besar tak rasa apa2 la...xde nostalgia.

Cuma thiz yr rasa tersentuh gak la bila those who i call frenz, sudi luang masa n wang ringgit utk raikan hari jadi aku...not tht i am supprise 2b frank. Tak harap apa2 pun tp kind of knowing it la dari tindak tanduk depa yg mcm planing and hiding something, nice try u guys...dun forget ek, i m d master of organizing event, hence semua trick2 korang aku boleh hidu :) Pepun sgt2 beterima kasih n mudah-mudahan ia bukan yg terkahir kali kt boleh rai benda2 ni sama2...

sini dulu 4 kali ni, esok2 maybe tulis lagi kalau ada mood....tp dah tekad nk aktif as slowly leaving my FB. 

salam 1 Malaysia! wah wah wah